If you're the primary caregiver, it may be a reflex to step in whenever your baby starts crying. But it's a good idea to give your partner the chance to be the soother, too. Not only does this give you a break (which is huge!), it adds to your partner's confidence level and provides bonding opportunities.

There are plenty of techniques you can encourage your partner to use, but it's also important to leave him or her room to experiment and learn independently.

Remind your partner to assess your baby's needs (diapering, feeding, burping) and to fulfill those first. If crying continues, your partner can try to soothe your baby by holding him or her close, rubbing his or her back, or using some infant massage.

Many babies are comforted by gentle, rhythmic motion, which helps a parent feel like he or she is doing something. Dancing, rocking, or swinging the baby may do the trick.

Distraction is another popular method. Your partner can try playing the entertainer with silly stunts, singing, and funny sounds and expressions.

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