Chances are that before you became a parent, the idea of singing "The Hokey-Pokey" would have struck you as, well, unbearably hokey. But now that you have a budding toddler along for the ride, you've probably found that the hokier your activities, the easier your day. This cheerful song and dance will help your toddler practice his or her musical skills, develop physical coordination, and learn about different parts of the body. Most important, your toddler will get a natural mood lift as he or she giggles in delight at your antics. And believe it or not, so will you. Give it a try – you'll see!
Appropriate for:
11 months and up
Skills developed:
Music, rhythm, gross motor skills, language
What you'll need:
Just your voice
Hold your child on your hip and start singing slowly and softly, so as not to overwhelm him or her.
You put your right foot in (put your own foot forward, raising it high enough so that your child can see it)
You put your right foot out (put your foot back down)
You put your right foot in (put your right foot forward)
And you shake it all about (shake it vigorously)
You do the Hokey-Pokey and you turn yourself around (turn around in a circle while holding your child)
That's what it's all about! (clap once)
(The song continues with more body parts: left foot, right hand, left hand, nose, backside, and so on, until you conclude with "you put your whole self in …".)
As your child gets used to the silliness, you can help him or her participate more actively by placing your hand gently on his or her foot (or other body part) and moving it "in," then "out." And if your child is a movement-lover, feel free to go faster and faster with each verse until you're both breathless with laughter at the end.
If your little one is able to stand independently or with minimal support, he or she might be game to try the Hokey-Pokey solo. Kneel so that you're on your child's level facing each other. Hold your child's hands in yours while you do the dance together. But don't expect your child to do the motions; an improvisational dance may be preferred – which is great for his or her body awareness, self-confidence, and ever-ready sense of fun.